TREAT HIM AS IF HE ALREADY WERE WHAT HE COULD BE
I stand strong in this statement. There's no worse feeling than a man's woman not supporting his work and criticizing him. A Black man's biggest concern already, is being Black in America and to have his woman not support him or his work is just as heavy. We work hard at what we value and to have the closet person to us criticize it without support can make us react in ways we didn't want to react. The tongue of a woman is her weapon against man and she don't know how it affects him until the end result. Though he attempts to express the situation, he's feelings or concerns, she opens her mouth and cut deep again hitting a major artery. Again, "When we treat man as he is, we make him worse than he is; when we treat him as if he already were what he potentially could be, we make him what he should be." Speak his purpose into existence. Speak life into Him. Use Positive Affirmations and Support Him To The Best of Your Ability. It's Not All About Y...