One of My Friends Just Asked Me A Great Question Of Course A Man Like Myself Always Have A Great Response:
"in order to make a relationship work, should both spouses be "trained" to the others liking, or if there has to be "training" in the first place, should there just be no relationship"

There are 4 levels of a relationship: Friendship, Dating, Relationship, and Commitment. I wouldn't call knowing your partners likes training. However, the likes and dislikes should be established in level 1, "Friendship". That's the stage where you are getting to know one another without giving up girlfriend and boyfriend privileges. You are learning what each like and dislike, what makes them mad and what makes them angry, their goals in life etc. You should start dating that person once the two of you are comfortable with one another and what each other has going for themselves. During the dating stages, that's when you explore each others adventure world, where are their favorite places to go, visit some of those places, do fun activities and so forth. Still during the dating stage, you're not giving up boyfriend and girlfriend privileges because you are only dating. Proceed to the relationship once you've reached an agreement as in to that's what you both want to do and you both are satisfied with one another and you've developed some type of love for one another. Then you should agree to be committed to one another. But throughout the course of the levels you will learn more and more about one another. It's impossible to learn everything about a person, you just learn enough to where you feel comfortable. You should look to learn more things and suggest new things to try and new places to go. Trying new things will keep the relationship fresh. I hope I answered your question.

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