I've learned that in order to be happy in a relationship, you have to spend majority of the time making yourself better instead of focusing more of your thoughts on the other person. The better you become, the better your partner will become. And if your partner can't change without you mentioning anything, then the relationship will fall apart.

After my time a part from my past relationship, I spent my time bettering myself as an individual before being involved with anyone. Once I reached the point of self happiness, I was able to help someone else become happy. I hope this advice helps you.

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