Nothing Good is Going to Happen for You if You Continue to Fight to Bring Others Down and Attempt to Turn Others Against Them. 


The problem I have with most people is that they are quick to tear others apart instead of trying to build them up. 

When someone hurt your feelings, you don't have to retaliate by airing their faults, personal business and the lies you make about them to the world for attention. Either fix the problem with proper conflict resolution skills, or Ignore them and let it go. All the energy invested in bringing others down could be invested in you, getting you where you want to be in life. 

Ladies, when a guy approaches you wrong, instead of degrading, belittling, and bashing him on social media, correct him so that his next approach is successful, rather it's during a conversation or him asking you or another woman out. If you are already involved with someone, teach him how to properly address a woman so that he can properly ask her out. 

"Break the cycle of degrading our brothers who haven't been properly taught how to address and communicate with a woman." 

If a male, rather someone you know or a stranger, young or older, fail to open the door for you, demand that he opens the door for you. He may have never been taught the importance of being a gentleman. Therefore the next time, he knows to open the door. Don't be okay with allowing the door to slam on you and your heels. 

"Teach our young and older men how a woman is suppose to be treated, So that they will treat the next woman with respect. Don't adopt the attitude of they should already know because it's learned behavior not something we were born with and we know many of our men were raised by Single Mothers. 

If a man and or a woman carries him/herself less than a man/woman should, instead of degrading them and blasting their wrong doings all over social media and all over the world, take the opportunity to help them correct their wrong doings. Help them blossom into the successful and loving adults they have the potential to be. Their parents may have not been in the picture or may not have been knowledgeable enough to teach them how to act like a man or lady. Since they were never taught, they may never know. 

"Help our sisters develop nurturing relationships and to walk with great character. Help her help you become a greater you." 

"Help our men develop into loving and responsible men. So that they can take care of their families and communities." 

- Jameel Davis 



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