It's Not That You Can't Find A Good Person, You Don't Know How To Keep Them Once They Are In Your Possession.

Often times we drive our person of interest away by trying to love them the way other people love their partner, which is not how they wish to be loved. - "Find out how they wish to be loved and love them that way."

Often times we drive them away by being controlling, treating them as if they are our children, instead of as their loving partner, which often times ruin the good within them. - "No one wishes to be controlled, but desires to be free to love and to be loved in return. 

Often times we allow our friends and families in on our issues, causing us to no longer be our partner's trustful companion, which causes them to no longer share information with us, no longer be around our friends and loved ones, which eventually drives them away. Anger and frustration usually builds up and they no longer have the desire to share their true emotions and feelings- "Learn to be competent and work matters out amongst each other and be their vault."

- Jameel Davis 

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#CultivatingMinds 



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