Often times, we allow others to negatively influence our relationships, by opening our minds to the negative things they have to say about the person we are involved with. Those people are quick to list all the negative qualities your person of interest possess. They never point out good qualities in that person, they are quick to dismiss that person because of their negative qualities, and nor do they offer to help that person become better.
Certain people may attempt to drive you away from your person of interest because their subconscious mind is filled with negative influences such as hatred, selfishness, jealousy and enviousness. They could be envious of your smile or just plain heartless because they are trapped in an uncomfortable position.
You should be with someone because that's what you want, not to satisfy the desires and appetite of anyone else. It's not your job to convince anyone to like you or the person you are involved with. Your job is to be in the best interest of yourself and the universe will handle those fueled with toxic energy effectively.
The next time someone fixes their mouth to say anything negative about you or someone you are involved with, do one of the following three things:
1.) Ignore them
2.) Ask them, "What Are You Doing To Help Me or Them?
3.) or Tell them, "Before you fix your mouth to talk about anyone, check yourself at the door,"
- because there's a lot of stuff you can be doing to better yourself than to worry about how others are living their life. And if your motive isn't to help or encourage the person you are speaking negatively about become better, what's the point of talking.
- Jameel Davis
#ElevatedWaves 📈
#CultivatingMinds 💡
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